I don't know what to do. Should we move out or stay with my in laws?

I am 3 months pregnant. My husband and I live with his parents. Within this house are my in laws, my husband's aunt and uncle with their 2 kids, his other uncle, and his sister. While living here, I am going to school full-time. My husband hasn't been working for about 6 months now. We don't have insurance for our kid but I have public aid right now.





My husband has been looking for a factory job for a few months. No luck. That's the only way to get insurance for the kid. He's great with construction work but it's so slow right now. He got offered a job in Chicago, about an hour away from where we are. For a handyman for an apartment complex. The pay is $400 a week and a free 1bedroom apartment but no medical insurance. I dropped half my classes to try to find a full-time job.





Should we move to Chicago and I find a full-time job with medical insurance there to help with his $400 a month or should we stay with his in laws until he finds a factory job that offers insurance while I work full-time here???





I am so depressed. Don't know what to do.|||I think your husband needs to work on his resume and try harder. I've had 6 jobs this year, it's not hard to find them. It doesn't help to go into an interview in jeans, with a scowl on your face, and being unprepared.





Refresh the resume, get a nice outfit with slacks, shirt, tie, and shoes, and start knocking on some doors. I've quit 3 jobs this year and lost two and spent no more than two weeks unemployed between them.|||I'm sorry you're in this situation.


Honestly, that's a lot of people in one house but if their paying, i would stay until i had the money.


400 a week is good especially the free apartment.


Is water and all that included?





Talk to your husband. He's the one you really need to be discussing this with.


Good Luck


God Bless.|||YES!! MOVE TO CHICAGO ,GET THE JOB , 400 IS BETTER THAN NOTHING, perhaps you shouldn't have gotten married and had a child without a job and a home of your own, if your man can't or won't provide for you and the child now whats gonna happen when the baby comes think about it!! he's still living with mommy %26amp; daddy, and dragged you into it with him...you need to do what is best for your child !|||Chicago is a very expensive place to live. He needs to find a job. Any job. You can pay for insurance out of pocket. He needs to focus on finding A job instead of just a factory job. He can continue to look for a factory job one he has a job. He needs to bring in income. Its not fair to your in laws to support you. I am not trying to bash you or make you feel bad. But your husband needs to work. Doesn't matter if its a gas station or a factory..just some where.


So you don't have a child right now but are pregnant? I would get more information on Chicago first.