*-TEENS-* why is my mom always trippin?

1st of all she'll just come in my room for no reason WITHOUT knocking just looking inside, and if she sees 1 thing on the floor she'll be like "clean up all this stuff in your room!" like it'll just be a shoe under my bed n she claims she can see it. 1st of all, my room is pretty neat for someone my age, 2nd of all, WHY YOU LOOKING ALL UNDER MY BED B*TCH (of course i didn't say that to her but u no)


also, if i wanna go somewhere with my friends, she says i gotta plan it a week in advance. WTF life isn't planned so why do i have to plan something. what if one of my friends just happened to be going somewhere that day and hadn't planned on it? i guess i just can't go. and she never wants me to go over my friends' houses because she doesn't know their parents. i can understand that, but when i suggest that she goes over to get to know them, she's like "what am i gonna do in their house, they don't want somebody just sitting in their house doing a whole lotta nothing (horrible grammar, yet she tries to correct me) besides, they might have some crazy uncle living in their basement" WTF you're an adult! find something to talk about and who the h3ll has some crazy azz man living in their house!?


she also calls me by these lame azz nicknames (miss missy, peaches, etc. [sometimes in PUBLIC!]), or comes in my room like a retarded 2 year old talking about "i love you" or "give me a hug" out of the blue she also gives things stupid names, like dumb dorey or some sh*t. i swear she needs medication.


also, most days when i come home, i go in my room and get on my computer, ipod, etc. (which my dad bought, not her). but some days, she's like "don't go to your room, come spend some time with me" wtf? i'm a teenager! besides, she has a husband GO TALK TO HIM!


another thing...


me, being a black teen in chicago i sometimes talk using slang (not xtra ghetto or anything) but i didn't when i was little. when i was younger, my mom would talk using PROPER english, with no accent. but now, she talk using her own lame azz slang and this TEXAS accent (even though her and my grandma both grew up in chicago). so now i'm like 'where did that come from' and she's like don't talk about me, you're getting out of line!


another thing, you know how most black parents spank their kids (to all the sissy's it's not child abuse), well she used to when i was younger, but now when i know i'm not as good as i was when i was little (i'm still not a bad kid, just not as good) she doesn't spank me, she just talks to me forEVER like she'll never shut up


HML,


*llanallane|||Well, to be honest you seem quite angry about your Mom. Talk EVERYTHING you've said here with us over with her. Sit down with her and say, 'Mom, can I read this to you please? Also, please try not to interrupt, it's really important.' Maybe then she will see you're angry and maybe she needs to change and let you live a little.